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FIVE AMAZING WAYS TO EFFECT CHANGE ANYWHERE YOU FIND YOURSELF
Five Amazing Ways To Effect Change Anywhere You Find Yourself...
Change is something that is inevitable in any human society. People learn characters and ways of life and certainly they can un-learn it.
In this article, the kind of change we are talking about is strictly positive change. If you will make a change anywhere you find yourself, it will start from you.
I am certain that most of us might have been trying to effect change in one way or the other where we are but its seeming impossible and even getting worse, the question is
Are you actually portraying the change you want to effect ?
If you will make a change anywhere you are, you must take the lead. It is not possible to make people do as you say and not as you do.
It is impossible to give what you don't have. You must be able to bring to the table a vivid example that people will see before they can key into it.
Below are important things to put into play if you must effect change anywhere you find yourself.
1. Identify The Source Of The Situation :-
Before you can effect change anywhere, you need to identify the source or the aider of the character or way of life you want to change.
There is need to firstly attack the root if you must completely take out a useless tree. If you cut from the middle, it might grow again but when you detach the root then it will be out completely.
2. Be formal :-
One thing you need to know about people today is that when you become jovial with them, they take you for granted that by the time you will be serious,they won't be.
You must be principled and have a good charisma. When you are able to command solid respect, then you can push things to them.
There is no way a mediocre can just come and say something and expect people to follow, now. It is never done.
3. Take The Lead :-
If you must effect change anywhere, you must take the lead. If you are going to stop people from wearing bad outfits, it must never be found on you.
The mistake most people often make is that they try to change peoples character but they themselves are in no way better than who they want to change.
Human beings are the most difficult creations on earth when it comes to control. They take a close watch at you in view with what you are offering them, immediately they see your style even negates what you want to effect, they abandon you.
4. You Must Be Able To Analyse :-
Most people clamour for change in others people behaviour but onething you need to know is that they learnt what ever they are doing at a particular time and you must be able to clearly state the adverse effect of what they do.
Why must you tell me to change without reason?
Why do I have to ?
What is wrong about the old ways ?
What do I stand to gain if I change ?
5. Never Be Authoritative :-
This is another mistake we make most times. There is no way you can make someone change with an harsh or authoritative speech, it will only complicate things.
Become easy, take the person or people as novice and try to explain things. Show some respect and be humble, these are recipes for calming them and making them submit or reckon to your advice.
You need to carry the along in all matters,make them feel important. If you will catch a monkey then you must behave like it.
Try imbibing this short rules and see yourself effect change so easily.